Overcoming My Horse's Fear of Other Horses: a Breakthrough! (Article 1)

Today is a great day! Read on…

The Problem

I’ve been plagued for a long time by Cruz’s fear of other horses in the arena at shows, but also at home. This problem has forced me to choose show venues with an alternative warm-up area where we can work alone.

Last week I went online, looking to see if anyone else’s horse has this problem, and what they do about it. Many riders have posted on forums that their horses are scared of being ridden around their own kind, and I searched for meaningful answers.

Looking For Help

I was very excited when my search revealed 4 Steps For Overcoming Your Horse’s Fear of Other Horses although the title sounded eerily familiar.

Aha! I thought – I need to read this.

Imagine my surprise when I found myself reading my own article! I wrote it a while ago for ezinearticles.com, but am also billed as a guest blogger on Richard Beal’s blog. He writes on Western riding, and I was flattered that he felt my advice worth repeating.

Using the system, Cruz had got better, then regressed when a horse bucked next to him at a show warm-up. After that, I had not been working consistently to regain his trust, as I should have. 

Since mine appears to be the only step by step program for eliminating a horse’s fear of other horses, it was high time I carried it out properly! (Please let me know if you find another program.)

  

Start with Fantastic Friends

I am blessed with amazing friends, who are committed to helping me.

Cruz feels safe around Kelli’s quiet mare, Pippi. She is his comfort zone.

Julie has an energetic mare, Cayenne, of whom Cruz is deadly scared as soon as she even walks towards him, or dares to step sideways in his direction. He sucks back and half-rears in fear. She is a very useful 'threat.'

The Program

Getting a horse over this fear takes as long as it takes: days, weeks or months. Each horse is different. Patience is key.

I suggest riding the frightened animal with one calm horse to begin with, until he is completely comfortable. Then bring in a second horse.

If your horse is truly frightened (and maybe scaring you, as Cruz had started to do with me), start with either you or a strong and calm horse person on foot. Stand beside the horse at the arena entrance and let the other(s) walk, trot and canter past.

Once he stays calm, lead him into the arena and have him stand in the middle while the others ‘do their thing.’ Then walk him between the other horses as they walk - then trot - towards him, and up from behind him on either side.

When he is calm about this, get on him (or have a competent, calm rider mount up for a while) and walk him between the oncoming horses as they walk and trot towards him/from behind.

The next step is to trot your horse among the two others, followed by everyone cantering.

Cruz is afraid of horses coming towards him, but some horses are more worried about horses coming up from behind. Adjust the exercises for your equine buddy’s particular issue.

Carrying Out My Own Advice

Day One

Yesterday a calm, strong and competent friend (thank you, Christina!) led Cruz into the arena while Pippi and Cayenne worked around him. Then yours truly had the guts to lead her own horse :)  while the others walked and trotted towards us.

Cruz stayed calm and I finished there.

Day Two

Today I worked him under saddle for 30 minutes until the others arrived, then dismounted and led him among the other horses again. Julie’s daughter, Ashley, had brought her cute and calm young gelding, Teddy, into the mix. Three other horses in all.

Cruz was great on the ground, so I mounted and walked him between the two mares as they walked and trotted towards him on either side.

We only had one ‘iffy’ moment when Cruz thought about sucking back. I realized that I pull on the reins when that happens, making it worse. The second time around I kept my hands steady, in front of the saddle.

Cruz breezed between the two mares without a hitch, in both directions!!!


YoooHoooooo! This is HUGE! Cruz enjoyed the big pats and hugs. He, too, felt the enormity of what he'd accomplished and snorted happily back to the barn.

Thank you so much, Kelli, Julie and Ashley!! They are very kindly coming back tomorrow, so we can build on today’s success.

I aim to trot him between the oncoming horses and will keep you posted.